Tonight I will be celebrating my birthday with a few dear friends at a snazzy boutique hotel. I’ve been obsessing over what to wear, because I am, after all, another year older. My Nasty Inner Twit told me things like: “You should wear a nice sweater with cute leggings, one that is functional but also a bit stylish”. “Don’t be too sexy, showy or over-the-top. It will make others feel uncomfortable.” “Don’t go crazy. Wear something appropriate for the season and your, ahem, AG